A Doctor and a Woman

Finding a Healthy Balance with Feedback

Sometimes we’ll pick and choose what feedback we want to listen to, and the rest of it goes out the other ear. Why bother with advice that doesn’t align with how we view ourselves? No one likes to be reminded of their weakness or blind spots. Even when the blind spot could be the very […]

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Friendly Coworkers

When Feedback Causes Distress

“Useless! What else can you not do?” My former supervisor said to me one day on the job in front of a customer. They had asked me to complete a task I wasn’t familiar with, and I needed some help. The outburst was not the reaction I was expecting or needed. I was taken aback […]

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Father and Daughter in a Field

Building a Legacy with Feedback

My parents immigrated to the US in 1988 to fulfill their dreams of owning a home with a backyard in a neighborhood where their children could ride their bikes freely. It was challenging. They came here with nothing; my mother cleaned airplanes, while my father was a bus driver. With no college degrees of their […]

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Woman Meditating

Working from Home: How Are You Doing?

My friend asked me the other day, “How did you handle working from home all those years? I’m going stir crazy!” I’m grateful for my small apartment but I understood how she felt. In the beginning, it was a real adjustment for me too. I had to be creative with the space I had, and […]

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Relaxed Woman on Phone

What to Look for in a 360

I remember an initial call with a client who had no idea where to start in her search for a 360. It’s hard to forget the urgency and uncertainty in her voice–was her request feasible in such a short timeframe? She specified the survey had to launch as soon as possible for her executive leadership […]

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